Unpacking: June

A smooth, happy birthday month with spa days, strength goals, shopping and exactly the kind of June I always hope for.

June is always my fave month of the year. Obviously, my birthday is a big part of that, but I don’t think it’s only because of my birthday. There’s just something about June that I love. It feels lighter, warmer, happier. It’s summer, the weather is pretty much guaranteed, everyone seems in a better mood, and there’s just something romantic about it that I can’t really explain.

It’s been a smooth, happy and productive June, which sits really well with me. Sometimes a good month is just one where you feel settled, you’re getting things done, you’re looking after yourself, your routines are working, and you’re actually enjoying the little things as they happen.

I expected June to feel good because it always does for me. I love birthday month energy and I’m fully someone who enjoys celebrating my birthday. I love surprises, gifts and generally love making a thing of it. I don’t pretend to be low maintenance about my birthday because I’m absolutely not. But at the same time, I’m realistic. I don’t expect a whole birthday week, but Bobby always manages to make it that way.

June always starts with Bobby’s birthday, which is a completely different situation because he’s not someone who loves celebrating himself. He never really knows what he wants to do, and if I go too over the top, he doesn’t like it. So I always have to find that middle ground where it doesn’t feel like too much for him, but it also doesn’t feel like nothing because I still want to do something nice. With me, it’s very easy…make a fuss, I’ll happily accept it.

We started the month with a little staycation for Bobby’s birthday and a couples massage, which I always love. I think massages are one of those things I’ll never get bored of, especially because my body gets so tight from training. I’m very prone to muscle knots and my back can get really uncomfortable, so this month I made a point of booking a few massages rather than waiting until I felt completely stiff.

Overall, June felt very consistent in the best way. Gym was good, diet was good, work was good, and nothing felt chaotic. I think when you’ve had months where everything feels a bit unpredictable, there’s something so nice about having a month where you feel like you’re just in a good rhythm.

I also booked in for Profhilo and Dermapen, and this was my first time trying Profhilo. I loved it. It’s not one of those treatments where you walk out looking totally different, but it gives the skin this hydrated, fresher, smoother look from within. It’s more about skin quality than changing anything about your face, which is exactly the type of result I wanted. The downtime was hardly anything, whereas with Dermapen my skin needs around a week before it feels completely normal again. It always feels a bit rough and textured during the first week, so I usually make sure I have nothing planned that week.

Bobby also took me for an early birthday shop, but obviously he wouldn’t let me have the gift until my actual birthday. We celebrated my birthday at Atlantis The Royal…he always loves planning my birthday. He hates making a fuss of his own, but when it comes to mine, he’s completely different. I’ve had my birthday at Atlantis The Royal a few times now and I love it every time. It’s one of our favorite hotels here.

For my actual birthday, he booked me in for a 90 minute massage and a facial at Awaken Spa at Atlantis The Royal, then dinner at Carbone. We spent the morning having the most incredible breakfast, then had pool time and lunch at Nobu by the Beach. It was such a beautiful day and exactly the kind of birthday I love.

Also, much less glam but very necessary, it was time for our sofa to have a deep clean. Every four to six months we get the sofas deep cleaned and I know it’s not exciting, but very satisfying when it’s done.

My family back in the UK spent some time at my late Grandads house and sent me pictures of whilst they were there. I missed not being there but it was so nice to see the pictures of his place. A house isn’t a home without the people in it. There’s a pear tree still standing tall. So many memories!

Also our new home renovations have begun! Bobby and I have designed it all ourselves. I’m so excited to share the journey on Instagram with you!

I’m glad I kept the month consistent. I know that sounds boring, but consistency is honestly one of the best feelings when you’ve been trying to look after yourself properly. Gym, food, work, treatments, rest, massages, everything felt like it had its place this month.

I’m also glad I finally tried Profhilo. I’d been curious about it for a while because I like treatments that improve the skin rather than make you look obviously done. The result is subtle, but it’s that kind of subtle that makes your skin look better without anyone being able to put their finger on exactly what you’ve done. It gives hydration, bounce and that healthier skin look.

I think sometimes life gets so busy that birthdays can become another thing you rush through, but I don’t want that. I like making memories around birthdays. I like having something to look forward to and to look back on. I like celebrating the people I love, and I definitely like being celebrated too.

I had a call with my PT this month and she said she wants to do a shoot with me in November. I’m nervous, but also kind of excited.

She’s put me on maintenance calories for now so I can build muscle for a couple of months, and then we’re going to shred for the shoot. Even typing that makes me nervous because the women she works with are seriously fit, but the fact that she thinks I’m capable gives me a lot of hope.

I think sometimes you need someone else to see what’s possible for you before you fully believe it yourself. I’m obviously going to have to work hard for it, and I know it won’t just magically happen, but I’m excited to see what my body can do when I’m consistent and properly focused.

Strength training has changed so much for me, especially in my 40s. It’s not just about how my body looks, although obviously I love seeing the changes. It’s also the confidence it gives you when you feel stronger. It makes you feel like you’re actively looking after yourself rather than just hoping everything stays okay.

No monthly rant this month.

It’s my favourite month and nothing was getting in the way of that. Any negative vibes were bouncing right off me this month. June gets protected at all costs.

My birthday gift was a new pair of Chanel ballet pumps, and they mean so much to me for a very sentimental reason.

My first ever Chanel purchase, which I bought with my own hard earned money back when I was in my 20s, was the classic beige and black Chanel ballet pumps. I wore them to death. I mean properly wore them. I got every single bit of my money’s worth out of them and eventually had to throw them away because they were completely done.

Bobby’s first Valentine’s gift to me was a pair of limited edition red Chanel ballet pumps, and I still have them. They’re still in mint condition and I love them.

So for my birthday this year, he bought me the classic beige and black Chanel ballet pumps. That’s why they feel so sentimental…they were the first Chanel item I ever bought myself, and now I finally have the classics back, but this time they’re from him. I love them even more because of that.

I also did a standard Zara shop, mainly basics to be honest. Nothing exciting, just the kind of stuff that fill little gaps in your wardrobe, like tank tops which I’m always wearing for my YouTube filming.

I bought some new photography equipment as well, which I needed to upgrade. Not exciting in a fashion or beauty way, but very exciting in a work way because anything that makes filming or content creation smoother is worth it.

I also picked up Emma Grede’s book, Start With Yourself. I’m still reading it, but so far so good. I love anything that gives me that little business/life mindset reset without feeling too preachy.

I bought the most beautiful summer dress from Realisation Par! The fit is so good, sizing is true to size and the material is a little stretchy and so comfortable!

A friend came over to my place and brought her little dog with her, and he peed on my pure wool rug 😭.

I said, “Oh it’s fine, I’m sure I can get it out,” because I’m that person that is dying inside but on the outside I totally play it down. I then spent about 30 minutes on my hands and knees scrubbing it with bicarbonate of soda and vinegar, and somehow made it 100X worse.

We had to throw the rug out!

I’ve never had to deal with this before because Nico doesn’t pee inside and never ever has, so I had absolutely no experience with this. It made me super grateful for Nico!

The Prada Symbole sunglasses are currently in my cart, and the only reason I haven’t bought them is because I already have too many sunglasses and I know I don’t need another pair.

I’m also on the lookout for brighter tops. I feel like I want to add a bit more color into my wardrobe without completely going off script when it comes to my style. I just feel like I need a few pieces that make things feel a bit fresher and more summery. I’ve already picked myself a red workout set! It’s from Oysho and so comfortable but not as much hold as a traditional workout set.

I’m loving the Copini freckle pen. It’s the best one I’ve used so far. I like using it to go over my sun spots, age spots, freckles, whatever we’re calling them. I don’t mind them, but sometimes I like making them look a bit more intentional, especially when I’m wearing lighter makeup. This pen is great because it’s not too dark, it’s super fine, and it looks really realistic. Some freckle pens can look a bit obvious or too warm, but this one blends into the skin really well.

I’ve also been loving the Dior Solar self tanning drops. You apply them to your face and within a few hours you get this soft sun-kissed look. It’s not dark, heavy or orange, just very natural. It gives the face that healthy warmth without looking like fake tan.

Also the One/Size Secure the Blur primer is insane! It’s SO good! Blurs your skin, and stays that way all day.

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I’m still watching my favourite show, Dutton Ranch. I absolutely love it. I don’t know what it is about that world, but I’m fully invested. I love the drama, the characters, the setting, all of it.

I’ve also been watching The Agency. It’s okay. Not gripping, but okay. It’s one of those shows I can watch, but I’m not rushing to put the next episode on. I’ll keep going with it, but it’s not giving me the same level of obsession.

June was exactly what I needed it to be. Happy, smooth, productive, a bit indulgent, and full of the kind of moments I actually want to remember.

It wasn’t a month of huge changes, but it was more about feeling good, staying consistent, celebrating properly, looking after myself, and enjoying where I am right now with the people I love.

I turned 46 this month, and honestly, I feel good. I feel strong, focused, excited, and very aware of how much better life feels when I’m taking care of myself properly. Not perfectly, because I’m never going to be that person, but consistently enough that it makes a difference.

June did what June always does for me. It reminded me why I love it so much.

Until next month…

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