My husband wouldn’t dare comment on my appearance unless it was positive. I sometimes wonder if he’s too considerate that way. After all if I have spinach in my teeth I prefer to know. I tell him. You take a person for what they are not what you decided they should be. With or without makeup matters none. I should have been a makeup artist cause my bathroom looks like Sephora. And my husband accepts that
Sounds to me like a Control thing. My makeup spectrum goes from one end to other depending on the occasion. But I feel comfortable leaving the house with no make up as I look after my skin and I use good quality products and keep my brushes/sponges clean. If my partner commented on me wearing too much make up I would question if he would have even approached me when we first met as I was full-on glammed! This is the same as your partner saying you're showing too much leg or too much cleavage... That would just vex me and it's definitely a control thing. I would send him packing as that's His insecurities kicking in. Don't put your shit on me love.
Amen Nina. It all goes back to how you are raised and the male influence within the family. My father was always respectful however he would step in to tell me, as a very young lady, if I was looking too harsh but of course complimentary. I love hair, makeup, clothes ect. It’s self expression to be in tuned with yourself. Lately I have ladies asking “ how do you look so beautiful, how do you do your makeup?”. This is ultimately a compliment to you Nina. How can we chat virtually? I need advice regarding my eye makeup? Always willing to take advice👄💋
My husband wouldn’t dare comment on my appearance unless it was positive. I sometimes wonder if he’s too considerate that way. After all if I have spinach in my teeth I prefer to know. I tell him. You take a person for what they are not what you decided they should be. With or without makeup matters none. I should have been a makeup artist cause my bathroom looks like Sephora. And my husband accepts that
I'm glad you agree! It really is a shame that some people think it's acceptable to make someone feel bad for the way they look.
Sounds to me like a Control thing. My makeup spectrum goes from one end to other depending on the occasion. But I feel comfortable leaving the house with no make up as I look after my skin and I use good quality products and keep my brushes/sponges clean. If my partner commented on me wearing too much make up I would question if he would have even approached me when we first met as I was full-on glammed! This is the same as your partner saying you're showing too much leg or too much cleavage... That would just vex me and it's definitely a control thing. I would send him packing as that's His insecurities kicking in. Don't put your shit on me love.
Haha agree!
Amen Nina. It all goes back to how you are raised and the male influence within the family. My father was always respectful however he would step in to tell me, as a very young lady, if I was looking too harsh but of course complimentary. I love hair, makeup, clothes ect. It’s self expression to be in tuned with yourself. Lately I have ladies asking “ how do you look so beautiful, how do you do your makeup?”. This is ultimately a compliment to you Nina. How can we chat virtually? I need advice regarding my eye makeup? Always willing to take advice👄💋