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Aria Rose's avatar

Let them judge! I gained 40kg from medication and lifestyle changes as a result of injuries and mental health impacts. Nobody ever cared how I gained it or offered support. Now I'm trying what it takes to get better, including medical weight loss. It's not for vanity, it's for my physical and psychological health. And I male bi apologies. If anyone had opinions, I'll ask then where they were when I was on the downward slide and desperately needed help. I find that these "opinions" are really just a way for people to mask jealousy and judgement.

Nina Ubhi's avatar

I totally agree!

Lori Deck's avatar

Nina, I know I've said it before but I have to say it again! I feel watching you every morning is the same as regular physical check ups! I am 62, and have been a nurse for 35 years. Single parent for years, worked 2-3 jobs and never had the money or time for me. My process to skin and health transformation began slow and skeptical. The reflection of an old, tired, battle worn woman was starring back at me. Finally something broke free when I happened across your channel. For once in my life I felt it was ok to do ME! I didn't have to continually sacrifice every aspect of myself, it was ok to care about me! Several years of trial and process, recognizing daily changes of my skin needs, and my continued journey. I don't feel I'm bad looking for 62. I started having eyelashes done and the lady always tells me I have beautiful skin. Of course it puts pep in my step! I credit YOU! YOU have helped me find Lori, the woman and embrace the journey. I'd love to send you a picture but I'm not sure how! God bless you and thank you for saving me from the dark depths of feeling 'my good days are gone.'

Nina Ubhi's avatar

To know that my videos have played a part in helping you reconnect with you, that’s a huge compliment. You’ve clearly spent a lifetime being everything for everyone else, and I'm glad you're now pouring into YOU!

This part of your life sounds like it’s just getting started! Thank you for reminding me why I do what I do. You’ve just made my entire week 💛

Lori Deck's avatar

That was a true, heartfelt statement. Is there anyway I could send a picture to your thread? I would like to show you the before and after. I feel you would be shocked! I've started taking pictures WITHOUT FILTERS! (I wouldn't mind any personal suggestions, lol)

Arshi Ahmed's avatar

Love it 💕

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May 30, 2025
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Nina Ubhi's avatar

Thank you so much and I’m so sorry to hear you’re going through that. It’s really frustrating when things shift suddenly and you’re left trying to figure it all out again. You’re definitely not alone. Just keep doing what you can…small steps still count. And thank you for the kind words about the Dior moment, it really means a lot. I’ll definitely be sharing more soon! ❤️

Gail Tenzer's avatar

OK! I’m trying the ice water hack: every morning, before anything, I drink a full glass of ice water. This supposedly by cooling your body from the inside, stimulates your metabolism into burn mode to warm you up, thus burning what you eat the rest of the day. Here’s hoping it works.