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Jenna H's avatar

I love this post and how open and honest you are in your writing. It truly feels like we are sitting down and having a casual conversation with each other (which is the ideal kind of newsletter for me). I have followed you on YouTube for a long time but just subscribed to this recently and am so glad I did. I really relate to this topic. I am 34 years old and have yet to try botox (for a number of reasons), but I definitely want to- for me and only me. I've struggled with the timeline - when am I supposed to start? and finding the right doctors....(I've unfortunately had some pretty negative experiences when it comes to this industry and find it hard to trust "experts" within this field). I'm an "easy sell" when it comes to all things beauty - and am really trying much harder not to fall for all the easy sales tricks. It's also much too easy to spend thousands of dollars on this kind of stuff, but in the wrong way. I'm curious how people pick their doctors and "trust" their recommendations? What's the right amount and frequency? I know there aren't any hard and fast rules, but I almost wish there were to simplify the process! I have had laser treatments, and kybella (that extremely painful injection that's supposed to get rid of a double chin but was actually a complete waste of money), em-sculpt and cool sculpting. Every kind of fancy facial, micro needling, etc and unfortunately I've done the invasive thing. I've had my nose done twice (to fix a poorly done nose job) and my chin done. So I'm no stranger to plastic surgery. Just saying that makes me feel superficial and fake, ugh. But I mention this because I want to get it right this time. I've made mistakes and been misled in the past and I think a lot of the time people just talk about all the wonderful sides and "magic" that lies in the beauty industry instead of the potential downfalls and negative outcomes if you don't really do your research. Again, thank you so much for sharing and for starting this dialogue :)

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Nina Ubhi's avatar

Hi Jenna, you’ve given me an idea... I’ll write about what you should be asking a clinic/doc regarding approaching these type of treatments. Although I’m not a professional, I’ve had many years of experience so I’m happy to share how I personally picked my clinic and doctor. Stay tuned! And please don’t feel fake or superficial for sharing that info!

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Jenna H's avatar

That would be wonderful and SO helpful!! Thank you so much, Nina!

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April Vogt's avatar

Thank goodness for Nina right ??! I personally research the heck out of my Med spa staff via word of mouth reviews before and after pics ... I’m not gonna lie I’m a bit of a data miner research obsessed person. I may have even did a little social media analysis of their lives outside of the industry. I feel that personal glimpse provides some perspective as to who they are when they think nobody is looking ... Remember this is Your Face ! The first thing people everyone sees including yourself! I am not comfortable trusting just anyone to perform procedures on it without a thorough vetting.

May I request that in this next post, you review the newest in mass spa procedures and treatments available ?? The reason I ask is though I spend a fair amount of time researching what’s the newest “thing” I occasionally miss some that may be my fountain of youth perfection! Any insight you can provide would be greatly appreciated.

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Jenna H's avatar

YES, thank goodness for Nina :) and this community she has created for us! I'm so sorry I am just seeing this (I made sure to turn my notifications on so I wouldn't miss it when people comment / like my posts) - but I loved your advice - what a good idea to look them up on social media and check out their personal lives. I definitely do a ton of research on their professional lives/certifications/schooling, etc., but that's extremely clever to check on the other side of the scale. Hey, employers do that to us all the time - why not do it to people we are hiring to make changes to our body! Really looking forward to when this next post comes out :)

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April Vogt's avatar

Well I’m like you in the way that I don’t miss much in this industry. I was thinking it may be helpful to list med spa treatments trending for 2023-2024.. ??!! Basically the treatments could be either the classics Botox fillers microdermabrasion or they can be the new treatments trending . Include a description of the treatments and why they made the list? I find that helps me when I’m considering a change in my regimen. Thank you !

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Nina Ubhi's avatar

I think that’s actually a great thing to do! You need to know you connect with the person in some way. I’ll definitely cover this - are there any procedures in particular you’re interested in?

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April Vogt's avatar

Hello Nina,

Thank you for such an insightful and honest share. I am turning 47 years old today and I can relate with both sides. However, for me it’s team Botox fillers laser treatments micro needling high end skincare ALL OF IT !! I don’t regret my lifelong love of beauty. I’ve been practicing this from the age of 4 beauty pageant star to model to designer I have spent my life in this industry. It’s what defines me. Now that doesn’t mean that I overindulge on the med spa treatments. I have been guilty of that in the past but today as I’m fast approaching 50, I I find myself more confident in who I am, armed with the wisdom gained from half a century of living, Today I am less focused on turning the clock back as I am to freezing myself in that perfect moment. Do I still spend time at the med spa ?? Absolutely but it’s by choice and not because it defines me.

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Nina Ubhi's avatar

Happy birthday! I completely agree! Ultimately it’s what makes YOU happy!

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Mary Stankiewicz's avatar

At 65, I’ve found that aging is most definitely challenging with all that’s seen and available. All in all I’ve experienced that laser is a permanent fix for rosacea, fine lines and some resurfacing of texture. This is enough for me because it lasts and a redo in 5 to 10 years is a better way to go. Having worked in Dermatology for years, I see the good the bad and the better. So enjoy your writings Nina, keep them coming, Blessings 💄

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Diyana salcan's avatar

I would love to have a clean look can you please help me nina

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Estefana Bogdanovski's avatar

Hi Nina - Thank you for sharing!

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